Aunt cares for autistic nephews, as well as own son with suspected autism

She is lauded by Club Rainbow for doing so, while caring for son who may have autism too

Taking care of three boys is already a challenge for most people, more so when all three have or are suspected of having autism.

Madam Annette Chua, 33, does just that – and two of the boys are not her sons but her nephews.

For going “over and beyond her duty as an aunt”, she was one of five people to receive the Exemplary Caregiver’s Award last month from Club Rainbow, a charity that supports chronically ill children and their families.

She is the primary caregiver for her nephews, aged seven and six, as their parents have mental illnesses and marital problems. Both boys have autism and are beneficiaries of Club Rainbow.

People with autism have difficulties in social interaction and communication, among other things.

Her two-year-old son, Jeryl Foo, is suspected of having autism too, but has not been formally diagnosed as he is very young, she said.

When The Straits Times visited her and the boys last Thursday in her four-room flat in Punggol, they initially behaved like boys their age, sitting on a sofa and watching a cartoon show on television.

But the challenge of caring for them was evident later, when they did not sit still and look at the camera during the photo shoot, and when they often interrupted the 1½-hour interview, sometimes shouting for attention.

Madam Chua, whose husband works in communications, has been taking care of her nephews since they were born, with some help from her parents. Her brother, two years her junior, is her sole sibling. He and his wife were diagnosed with mental illnesses before their sons were diagnosed with autism.

Asked why she chose to take care of her nephews, Madam Chua said firmly: “I don’t want them to follow in their parents’ footsteps.

“I want to give them the family warmth, rather than having them go through anxiety, which might lead to some psychological problems when they grow up.”

Club Rainbow executive director Jerome Yuen said: “Annette’s conviction despite her circumstances is one of the compelling reasons she was bestowed the Exemplary Caregiver’s Award. She has gone over and beyond her duty as an aunt.”

Madam Chua quit her job as a supply chain executive in a manufacturing firm in December 2013, when pregnant with Jeryl, as she had some health problems then and also wanted to spend more time taking care of her nephews.

She attends seminars and reads up online on early intervention, and has started creating her own educational materials to better coach her nephews and son.

In April, she started a support group on Facebook, called “Children with Learning Disabilities Support Group – Singapore”, for parents of children with special needs. It has more than 150 members.

Starting the support group, on top of caring for her nephews and son, shows how far she has come.

When her son was suspected of having autism, it hit her hard. “I was quarrelling with my mum, saying that we need to do this and that to help him, if not his future will be like this and that,” she said.

“I was concerned about how my son and nephews would be independent in future… their educational pathways… and what can they do in the future.”

She also struggled with anxiety and depression from 2010 till last year. Said Madam Chua: “I kept asking myself: ‘Why am I getting all this?’ It was overwhelming. I had to handle (the boys). I had to juggle issues with my brother and sister-in-law. I was very exhausted.”

 

 

For Full Article, Please Visit: http://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/mum-takes-care-of-two-nephews-with-autism

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